Surviving after an affair.

So to update... We divorced and then remarried. Yes the after effects of the affair is still there. It still hurts a great deal. There is still mistrust, but we learn to deal with those things on a daily basis and make the most of the good times. We love each other enough to live with each other's faults and short comings. No one in this world is perfect. I wish I did not have to feel what I feel, sometimes it overwhelms me. I still dream about my husband telling me he is having an affair. When I have had such a dream, I discuss it with him and he reassures me that it is just a dream and nothing is going on that I need to worry about. So I guess we have take it one day at a time and hope for the best. Everyone deals with things in their own way and this is how I am dealing with mine. Love ya. Hugs.